Thread:1MysteriousEnigma/@comment-24583896-20160427132714/@comment-27318396-20160427223210

okay.. but i'm not sure yet... but i'm not good with these problems but heres what I have to say.

1. be more positive and nice (which after your behavior last night, this is why i'm suggesting it, but you may be returning to it).

2. ask other people how they think or feel. Or what they're thinking in situations. And be as respectful as possible. And be benign with their thinking. Even if you don't agree with it, you can disagree but try to be nice to them.

3. before you do something in a situation, hear from everyone's side of their story. Even if it takes them a while to reply, wait for them to respond. And make sure you memorize their story and compare it with every single story you got from each person involved in the conflict. Compare it with every other story. It includes your's.

4. I want you to make a very sincere apology to GDG and everyone else. And publically admit what you did wrong. And try to ask them how they feel, and what makes their opinions/reasons right to them, "For example: why they think the staff is biased"  Also, don't always tell a person their wrong. Try to point out everything that is wrong or right about their choice, or anything they do in general except for content. (for example: they feel like someone is doing something wrong.  And point out everything about their statement to the person pointint out what's right about their statement.  And what's wrong about their statement.  Its like pros and cons).

5. Also, if you see something that a person thinks is rude, but you think that it isn't. Don't treat it as a fact. Respect the person's opinion. I'm saying this since it looked like that you were treating the "review" on GDG's game wasn't rude at all as a fact. Understand how GDG would've felt about the review, and treat everyone's view as a opinion.

6. put this whole incident behind. And don't make threads like this again.

7. before making a choice, try pretending being in their shoes and thinking like them. And ask them how they feel.

8. If you apologize to someone, don't say that they're wrong after apologizing. It doesn't make your apology look legitimate.

9. Don't say that the person is always wrong, because the person could be right in a specific point of view. Try asking them what they think is wrong, and why the think it is wrong. As well as what they should do to make it better. And try to look at their choice in their point of view.

10. Don't go with what one person says. Of course, it sounds hypocritical for me since I told you it from my weak point of view (It was weak at the time, since the issue was just new). But, try to see what other people think or say, wait for the situation to develop so you can get more accurate ideas what people are thinking.

I apologize for my behavior towards you yesterday. I was very tired of this drama and seeing people argue. I know it was unnecessary for me to go in like that. I apologize for attacking you. I could've addressed it politely. But I was too mad since I thought that addressing it might not work (I should've addressed it nicely).

Thats all I can really think of that you should approve on. It might not be noticable that i'm not doing some of these things. But I really am improving on what I gave you, some I already improved on a while ago. Sometimes, I just forget, or i'm not on my meds, or i'm not in a good mood.

Now, if you do these, we will become online pals again, but I have to wait and see what develops. So it may be a month or week. But, I want this situation to be placed behind and never be brought up again after you apologize to everyone and admit what you did wrong after you try all my methods I gave you for you to use to improve.

Hope this helps.